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The remedy roundabout

I hadn’t realised I’d left it so long – nearly 2 months since my last post!

Ok, the lachesis didn’t help and neither has lycopodium. Now we are on to a remedy called Morgan.
I think Alice’s homeopath is feeling almost as exasperated as we do. “It would be fine if when it moved down her back, it left her neck”, she said. But no, the eczema just seems to to be spreading.
There have been a few little spells of minor improvement which have given slight hope only for them to turn in a flash into the most intense flare ups she has had yet.

Over the last couple of months we were doing fine. I was recognising a pattern of sorts; about 4 to 7 days of her skin being rashy but not uncontollably itchy, followed by a few days of a really itchy flareup. When I say “really itchy”, it actually is mainly isolated to when she is tired, waking up from a nap or at bedtime. Her skin’s condition was becoming more predictable and the eczema was isolated to the same areas. The worse flareups were becoming manageable because I was recognising they were shortlived.

Over the past month, I’ve noticed the eczema is spreading. The usual locations, the arm and leg flexes are now bigger. Her neck rash is going up into her scalp and down onto her shoulders. Some days is all over her back and has also appeared, mildly, on her tummy for the first time. The one godsend is that it has not gone back to her face and eyelids in the last few months.

Alice has been on a dairy free diet for about 10 days now. We had tried her on soya milk before but she hated it so we went back to cows milk. Someone suggested that we try goats milk and Alice has really taken to it – in fact she is really on board with going ‘moo’free and this little lady loves her mozarella cheese!
Again, the initial signs were good as her skin calmed down for a few days, but for the last 5 days or so it has just gone down hill again. I would have hoped by now that if dairy was a main trigger that her skin would be clearing. Maybe we need to give it another week or two…

I really feel we are on a cross roads with this journey. Alice now refuses to sit down in the bath because her skin stings so much. (We just put a small squirt of Aveeno body wash in the water). She is terrified of the shower too so bathtime is becoming quite an ordeal for us both. The front of her neck is cracked and raw.
We are about to go ot Ireland for a week’s holiday to visit family and friends and most excitingly, for my little brother’s wedding. I really wish I could give Alice a holiday from her itchy skin too.

So, now and not for the first time since we stopped using steroids in February, we are seriously considering using the hydrocortisone and maybe even the moderate steroid for a few days to try and get her skin back under control.
I think it is about trying to choose between the lesser of two evils at this moment in time.

We use Bria Organic Skin Balm and Pure Salvations Skin Salvation as well as Vaseline Intensive Rescue and to a lesser extent Aveen Lotion which seems to now irritate her. I certainly notice that we are getting through the jars of skin balm much more quickly. We continue to avoid paraffin base emolients during her homeopathy treatment. I tried Euricin cream but it irritated her too much, as did organic coconut butter which was a disappointment. I haven’t yet tried Shea butter.

Suggestions welcome on where to go from here!
Has anyone managed to control their child’s worsening eczema without steroids or with homeopathy?

A new remedy for Alice

A new remedy for Alice arrived in the post yesterday. At our second Homeopathy review meeting last week, Elaine confirmed that the previous remedy Psorinium had not helped Alice’s eczema. That remedy was chosen as it is effective for hereditary forms of eczema. She now thinks it is time to try another remedy that is matched with Alice’s personality and symptoms. The new remedy is Lachesis and she is to take one 30c tablet daily for 5 days. Then we wait for a week and if there is improvement we take one 200c tablet. It would freak my husband out if I told him that it was derived from snake venom (I know he is not religiously reading my posts!). Aside from that snippet, I don’t think I will get too bogged down this time in researching the remedy to analyse whether I agree that it matches Alice’s personality traits. I’m just relieved that if it is going to work we should see an improvement in the next couple of weeks.

Alice and I were away visiting friends over the weekend and the eczema on her face was a little better which was great. Before we stopped using the steroids, I felt that I was chasing the eczema around her body with the ointment. Now after 9 weeks of no steroid ointments, I am realising that it does just move around. All around her eyes and eyelids were bad a few weeks ago, last week it moved down to her cheeks. Some areas such as her neck seem to be continuously flared, while behind her knees fade slightly then and then come back with a vengeance. Even though her neck is quite bad just now, it is lovely to see her shining eyes again and it means her eczema isn’t so immediately obvious when we meet up with people. I had been wondering if there was a pattern forming whereby her skin improved when she was at home with us at the weekend and worsened again during the week when she is in childcare. But I did notice this weekend that skin was more irritated on Monday when she was with me and it looked a bit better when I picked her up from nursery on Tuesday, which was a pleasant surprise.

This weekend we have our first appointment with a dermatologist. I’m not sure what to expect (apart from a reprimand for not applying the steroid creams). We want some allergy testing to be scheduled but hopefully he can also provide some additional insight into her skin condition and will offer some useful advise to help us manage it.

Skin today: Face and neck appear to be slightly better than they have, of late but both became really flared before bed. Alice had no nap today and was going into meltdown by bedtime. Other areas; wrists elbow and knee creases more irritated that usual.

Seven weeks in

At the end of a tough week I finally emailed my daughter’s homeopath last Friday morning for some advice.
Alice’s skin was just getting worse. Her right wrist was weeping from her overnight scratching and her neck was also red raw. I was worried that her skin might become infected and wanted some advice in general.
I was also wondering if the antiseptic cream I had was ok to use (she had recommended that I avoid products that were paraffin or zinc oxide based and the antiseptic contained both). She said it was fine to use it and also that she would send another remedy to help the itching to settle.

The remedy arrived the next day but by then Alice’s skin had already shown signs of improvement. That is what is so confusing about this whole “journey”. I try to make sense of her flare-ups: has she been eating more sugary foods? Is it the weather? Is it the remedy reacting or is it as I’ve started consider, topical steroid withdrawal, which I hadn’t heard of until I started reading other blogs.

I’ve realised that there is just no rhyme nor reason to the condition of Alice’s skin and there might not be an answer out there. I just hope that some day I will read back on these posts when her skin has healed.

In the meantime…. The new remedy was sepia. 4 small pills, one a day for 4 days which began on Saturday.
Her skin was already improving before then, and really looked much better by the time I dropped her off to nursery on Monday morning. (Could the psorinium remedy be working at last?) By 5pm when I picked her up it was back to same old: red panda eyes and angry red neck. It has worsened through the week and we gave her Piriton last night in the hope that she would have a peaceful night.

The continual discussing of her skin condition during nursery handover is beginning to grate. I did try to steer away from the topic yesterday as I don’t want Alice to get a complex about it, but another member of staff today commented that it broke her heart seeing her itching her neck. (Her neck does look pretty bad right now). I know they mean well and the staff members who discuss it with me have eczema or similar themselves (Thought flashes, could it be the nursery?!!)

I’m going to try and stick with homeopathy for a bit longer but we feel that we are not managing to get her skin under control in the meantime. John feels very strongly that we need to take action. He is going to ask her GP for a referral to a skin specialist or a recommendation so we can go private. (The wait can be long for a referral).

I’ve ordered a new cream tonight, Pure Potions Skin Salvation as recommended by a fellow blogger and some more of our old reliable (but appears to have lost it’s magical effect) Bria Organic Balm.
I also decided to try John’s Vaseline Intensive Care moisturiser instead of Aveeno for a day or two.
I’ve also ordered The Complete Homeopathy Handbook so I can read up a bit. That was well over a week ago, so that’s what I get for boycotting the well known tax avoiding online retailer in favour of a reputable British bookseller!!

For my notes: Sepia taken Sat – Tue daily. Skin was slightly improved Saturday, Sunday, but went downhill again Monday evening and bad since. Using antiseptic on broken skin. Worst areas, right wrist, all around neck, eyelid and around eyes. Light patches on face (jawline, forehead) have developed in last week or so. Skin broken neck and wrist, applying antiseptic, Piriton Wednesday night before bed. She’s also getting a bit of a cold since Tuesday/Wednesday. Calpol this morning for cold. Went to sleep easily tonight.

Up and down

Last night I really wanted to throw in the towel with this whole homeopathy thing. Alice’s skin was hot, red, broken and was really bothering her. She has several problem areas of eczema which have not shown any sign of improvement and all around her neck has been bad for about month and was itching her like crazy last night. She asks me to stay with her to rub her neck and back as she tries to fall asleep at bedtime.

It is so hard to see her go through this discomfort and I feel guilty for not using the steroid ointments that her doctor has prescribed. Alice is 3 and has only had eczema since last Summer.  I now keep thinking that maybe her eczema is something that she will grow out of like so many children do and we shouldn’t deny her relief from it in the meantime. The owner of Alice’s pre-school nursery commented last week that her remedy didn’t seem to be helping any. I had mentioned to her and some of the staff that we were trying homeopathy and let them know that her skin might be worse for a while. It crossed my mind that they might think I am neglecting her by not using her ointments on her wrist. I mumbled something in response saying I didn’t think it was going to be a quick fix…

I try to remind myself of why we are doing this. In the 6 months since we first saw her doctor about her skin we were applying steroid ointments daily and the eczema just seemed to move around her body. Some areas such as her right wrist never healed completely and we were moving on to more potent steroid ointments. The eczema then flared around her eyes and her doctor advised we put the mild cortisone on her eyelids for a short term to try to nip that in the bud. It just did not seem to be getting under control.

Alice’s Dad has been using topical steroids since he was a little boy and he now has thinning of the skin. So it’s in the family and as I don’t know that she will grow out of it, I really feel that I have to try and resolve the underlying cause rather than continually treat the symptoms with steroids. I need to give homeopathy some more time.

We have just returned today from a trip to visit my family in Ireland so it was nice to have my sister around for some words of advice when I was feeling a bit low last night.  Her hubbie recounted how a homepathic remedy worked for his hay fever last year. While taking the remedy he continued to suffer badly from hay fever but eventually their homeopath told him it was time to come off the remedy and he hasn’t suffered a day of hay fever since.

Today, Alice’s skin is a lot calmer than yesterday and even looks like it is healing a bit. She went off to sleep tonight without any fretting. It really is up and down at the moment.
I think it is time to contact Alice’s homeopath for some advise.

Final note: This latest bad flare-up has occurred 9/10 days after taking her last remedy. I think that is around the time that it takes for the system to react to the psor remedy.  It also happened during our short holiday so after a day of travelling – with a flight and car journey and several days of a more sugary that usual diet for Alice, and Easter treats! The weather has been very cold but is milder again today.

Month two

Following Alice’s review with her homeopath on Monday, we received the remedy in the post on Wednesday. Elaine has decided to repeat the first remedy and enclosed two more tablets of psor. She thinks Alice is holding her own quite nicely without the steroids and that a repeat of the remedy may bring further improvement. Alice took the two doses yesterday.

Last night she was troubled the most by her skin since we stopped applying steroid ointments one month ago. Although a reaction is expected to the remedy, I don’t think it is expected so soon. She has a bit of a cold and cough and it is bitterly cold out at the moment so I think these might be the main contributors to the decline in her skin condition. I have been experimenting with different natural creams and I think she was doing better with Bria Organic Balm.  I bought it online and the jar is now finished and I’ve been trying out Seven Cream for now while waiting on more Bria to arrive.  Seven Cream and her usual Aveeno cream seem to be causing irritation after application in the evening these past few days.

At the moment, her right wrist is not good, her eyelids and below her eyes are red, dry and sore looking. All the way around her neck is very red and dry. Her neck is a new area, flaring  for the first time in the last week or two. Her back doesn’t look too bad, but is bothering her. Last night I ended up taking her into bed with me as she kept waking up scratching.  Until now her sleep hadn’t really been disrupted.

So that’s just an update on her current skin condition that I will hopefully look back on in a months time and be relieved as we have gotten through it and she will be in a healing phase.  Please let the Bria Balm arrive tomorrow!

Renewed optimism

It has been under 4 weeks since we my first visit to see a homeopath about my 3 year old daughter Alice’s eczema.  At her request we have not used topical steroid ointments since that appointment. She also asked us to refrain from using paraffin based emollients which do not allow the skin to breathe.  The first step in the healing is to let Alice’s body work naturally by not suppressing the eczema with these treatments.  We continue to use her Aveeno Lotion and I have sourced some natural creams such as an aloe vera gel,  an organic beeswax based balm and most recently 7 cream. Elaine also prescribed 2 small pills of the remedy psor which Alice took 3 weeks ago.

We had a homeopathy review today.  It was a shorter session of information gathering this time. I updated her on week one’s flare up,  the few days of reprieve when Alice’s skin improved dramatically, before the next nasty flare up which occurred around the time that a reaction to the remedy was expected (but also coincided with a big freeze outside).  Alice chattered incessantly in the background, interrupted continually (“What are you talking abut Mummy?” , throwing her arms in the air in exasperation), so it was a little hard to stay focussed, but I think Elaine was using the time to observe her (big) little personality and at the end of the meeting said that she was going to prescribe another remedy. She said the first remedy was dealing with the inherited conditions and aided in removing the suppression of her eczema … or something along those lines. She said it was good to have a look at the true condition of Alice’s skin now that the steroids are not used.

So, we will have another review in a month.  It does seem to be a bit of trial and error  but then so is conventional medicine. I do feel reassured by Elaine’s quiet confidence and if I am going to continue down this route I have to trust her judgement. At the very least today did remind me that Alice is coping fairly well without the steroid ointment and that is a massive achievement in itself.

Since I started this blog,  I’ve been reading  other bloggers’ accounts of topical steroid withdrawal and after some initial shock at the harrowing symptoms of steroid withdrawal following addiction, I’m in complete awe of their strength of mind and determination to become healed. This reinforces to me that I am doing the right thing by Alice by stopping the use of these medications before her body has become addicted or suffers any other side effects. 

I don’t know whether homeopathy will be the solution to achieving eczema free skin for Alice but I believe we are on the right track.

Square One

It’s been over a week since I’ve posted and it feels like we are back at Square One.

After an initial reaction to the withdrawal of her steroid ointment, Alice’s skin seemed to be really calming down. I had found what I was considering to be a steroid substitute in Bria Organic Balm and her skin looked better than it had in weeks. There were a few stubborn areas but generally much better and her eyes were clear and bright again.

Now, her skin is back to the way it was when we last saw her doctor 3 weeks ago – the time he recommended putting hydrocortisone on her eyelids. The eczema isn’t as widespread as the post steroid withdrawal flare up,  but I hate seeing it around her eyes and her wrist looks on the verge of infection. I’m applying the Bria balm and Aveeno lotion regularly and put some antiseptic ointment on her wrist tonight.

She is scratching but not too badly and she is sleeping well. I’m just going to try and hold out until we have the homeopathic review in 6 days time.

I’ve been pondering the possible reasons for this recent flare up:

  • It could mean the psor homeopathic remedy she took over two weeks ago has kicked in and this is the expected reaction which will hopefully be followed by healing.  This seems like wishful thinking right now.
  • The weather had become quite mild here for a week or so which on reflection coincided with the good spell in Alice’s skin condition. We’ve had snow (in Scotland) over the weekend and the temperature is still sub zero.  Did the return of the cold weather cause Alice’s skin to get worse again?
  • With a random good spell over,  we’re now seeing the negative effects of not using the steroid ointment on her skin. (= guilt ridden mother).

Any suggestions on how to treat a 3 year old’s wrist without steroid ointments would be gratefully received.